On marriage

have decided to get married. I was reading in some "self help book" that married men live on average an additional 7 years beyond those who remain single. When you get past 40, an additional 7 years is a lot.

Of course if my new wife finds out she will say "I did wander why you kept saying 7 more years at our Wedding." But what can should she do. If she really loved me, she would be happy that I would live a bit longer

The slight problem is that I am not sure who to get married to. But I am assume the internet will provide, as it does for everything else.